Why are boys so disgusting

My brother had some friends over and one commented on my “gyatt” a long while ago. Literally 10s ago, I see some snap dms from another one of his friends saying that I’m “so bad” and talking about how he wants to hit. I feel so disgusting and gross and I want to cry

Edit: i know not all guys, my title was an act of frustration. I’m friends with a few of the more respectful ones

Edit2: I didn’t expect this to blow up so much, much less ride the high for so long. (I thought it would crash like 8h ago)

Common comments/q’s:

How old is he: my brother’s friend is a freshman (9th grade) so probably 14-15

How did my brother react: he thinks this is hilarious and unserious

You should talk to your brother: I did. He was laughing. Not all men!!!: I know that. See edit1

You should change your title!!!!: no. I couldn’t do that if I wanted, if my being harassed makes you feel offended, thats not my problem.

Stories of similar experiences: keep sharing them!! I hate that they happened, but its good for others here to see they aren’t alone :)

You should [insert act of violence here]: See, I just go mute and between fight/flight/freeze, I fly.

Why haven’t your parents said anything: because these happened over the phone or home alone with friends over

Mods: thank you for keeping this place pretty tamed. Youre doing amazing work!