Did you tell your family the name you chose before birth?

My husband and I are expecting our first baby girl this July. We are so very excited. We haven’t received too much pressure yet, but I know my family and his will be expecting us to tell them her name soon. Pros and cons of this? We’re thinking to wait because we don’t want 100 things (clothes, blankets, hats) with her name on on it. I also don’t want anyone’s opinion changing our minds. The name we like seems weirdly controversial in the name nerds thread so it sort of makes me scared to not hear others opinions at the same time. But it also would be fun for them to know and talk about her by name like we do. Thoughts??