Do your parents say awful things then just pretend it never happened?

Do your parents ever insult your existence then just go about their day as if nothing happened? Like mine said some transphobic things to me… an hour’s worth literally. I’m moving out soon but feeling guilty as hell for putting myself first.

They’re going to be so angry with me. Even though I’m an adult. I have every right to move. But I feel like I’m betraying them somehow because they say they love me and support me but at the same time they don’t fully support me. I don’t know what to do anymore. They are gaslighting me, right?