Met someone so nice and safe,opposite of my typical LO ,but I have no attraction

So basically I went on a date with a very nice guy ,he was so kind and caring and felt safe. Unlike the LO that wrecked me and previous LOs who were hot and cold and I was hooked for months. But I don't feel attracted to him ,like there's no spark . It feels boring and I feel like I deserve excitement but excitement left me traumatized. So I'm making myself give this guy a chance but idk it feels wrong Am I just compromising cause I'm scared to be hurt again or is that what normal relationships are like? Without the excessive attachment and excitement experienced in limerence