How to deal with stubborn family menber ?

Hey everyone... Tomra / Apnara jedi manush jon er sate ki bhabe deal koren ? Amader joint family.. Amar somosa amar nijer boudi ke neye..uni boyanok ekguye o jedi. Onar kothai jeno sesh kotha, jodi onar kotha na mana hoi, tahole uni bison rokom passive aggresively behave koren. Biyer age serokom bhabe baire beroten na, seijone bairer jogoter somporke serokom dharonao nei..bole dileo uni tar jeta mone hobe uni setai korben Biyer age gram ey thakten, biyer por 10 kete geche, ekhono sohor er adob kaida sikhe ute paren ni, (naki sikhte chan na ). Onar baper bari sob kichu bhalo...sosurbari sob kichu kharap.. Onar ekta 8 bochorer chele ache(amar bhaipo), rege gele sei rag uni ei 8 bochorer bachata ke bokajhoka maardor koren..ei jonne amar dada o onake confront korte bhoi pai.. Barite thakata oshojho hoye jache Kichu upai jana thakle janaben plz