Am i the only one who experiences this

I call it trans/queer pronoun guilt. Its when you figure out your trans or some other gender and feel your pronouns are wrong. And in the closeted stage I'm still in. You basically start feeling guilty whenever you call someone who even though you know they are a girl or a boy when you call them by there pronoun of birth something feels wrong as if your feeling guilty because your mind is thinking "what if there closeted like me what if I just made them dysphoric". And it gets so annoying because it happens with everyone even my closest friends like I only don't feel guilty if they have told me they identify as a gender identity and tells me there pronouns.