The Church recommends civil marriage before temple sealing??? Says my TBM mother in law

My TBM mother in law is visiting for Thanksgiving. She told us that the church now encourages members to be civilly married for a year or so before getting sealed.

I know members CAN now get civilly married before a sealing. But I am pretty confident they don't encourage young people to get sealed a year later, as a way to make sure they want to be sealed before getting sealed.

Has anyone else heard this? Am I taking crazy pills? Or does anyone have a reference that says the real church stance. That shows they don't encourage people to wait to get sealed.