The Tenth Doctor is a Dick

So I watched the new series a while back, when I was a teenager and I remember loving it. I just started started rewatching because it's been so long that I can watch it like it's a brand new show and I'm not caught up to the newer seasons yet. I still love it just as much. But can I just say, the 10th doctor is a huge dick, especially to Martha. I understand he didn't reciprocate her feelings, but did he really have to treat her like that?? Honestly, now that i think of it, he's kind of a dick to everyone in his life. He kind of reminds me of shitty boyfriend who manipulates his way into everything. I prefer the 9th doctor so far with my first rewatch. Does the 10th doctor get any better??