Women in their late 30s and beyond, who did not substantially change their dating "standards" or "expectations" as they aged from 20s to 30s, how did things turn out for you?

I put "standards" and "expectations" in quotes because these are relative and everyone has their own. Commonly, both men and women have certain dating expectations and they may or may not change as they get older. It's natural for them to change (e.g., less emphasis on looks or income) but for some these might not change and may have some impact on dating outcomes.

So how did things turn out for you?

Would you do anything differently?