Dating advice

Help! I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 years and am a female in my late 20’s. I’m not at ALL ready to start dating again but even the thought of it stresses me tf out this late in the game. Personally I think I’m a catch and bring a lot to the table, but I am soo awkward and shy at first I wouldn’t even know how to go on a date anymore and woo someone?? I’m a big planner and like to be prepared so I guess I’m just asking for advice on how the dating game is out there or for any tips?? Help a sista out. Male or female advice encouraged!!