The way she looks at Anderson isn't with love, me saying that isn't "reaching" either, it's clear & obvious in every vlog. She can fake many things, but her lack of emotion towards her son isn't one of them.
That's not the face of someone who adores their child. She only films these staged awkward moments to try to prove us wrong. We said Anderson doesn't look at her, or engage with her...so here she is trying to get him to look at her in her face. Saying "he wants to say mama so bad" no he wants down & to play with toys. He's still not looking at her, this is actually very telling & only proving our point even more.
Every time she films herself talking to him, I feel very uncomfortable & cringe in the worst way. Like when someone you know isn't a good person, but they try to put on this front as though you aren't aware of their shadiness. It's giving those vibes, like a pit in my stomach because I can tell behind the scenes she's impatient & not nice at all to her son. I'll explain it like this...when a babysitter is sweet to your face, but you find out they mistreat your kid's. Or if a elderly parent is in a nursing home & you assume the staff take good care of them, but you find out they are incredibly cruel. Nothing about Alex makes me feel safe knowing Anderson is in her care. Maybe it's just me, but I pick up on things & I see animosity & frustration in her towards Anderson, not gentleness or love for her baby at all.
Go get therapy Alex, don't repeat this messed up cycle. You aren't happy, your weight & shopping has been out of control ever since Anderson was born. It was always bad, but it got worse because you're desperately trying to fill the emptiness with temporary dopamine hits. The other subreddit make it out like we're the crazy unhinged one's trying to ruin Alex's life, but in all actuality we are just brutally honest about her physical & mental decline.
No we don't like her lies, she absolutely should be held accountable & grow up, accept the repercussions for her actions. But us trying to tell her to seek help for the sake of her child, to DO BETTER so that Anderson doesn't grow up with the same issues she did, isn't "hate" it's logical sound advice she needs to take heed to. To eat better so she's not 500lbs & her son will have a mom that's ALIVE, not bedridden able to take him to school isn't "delusional".
Alex is unable to love anyone but herself, she's only gonna cause emotional trauma to Anderson if she doesn't get the help she needs asap. Because as of right now, her eyes are dead. No light or joy behind them & it's not postpartum depression either. It's years of suppressed buried issues that she used food to cope with. She assumed having a baby would "fix" her, but all it did was make it 100 times worse.
That's not the face of someone who adores their child. She only films these staged awkward moments to try to prove us wrong. We said Anderson doesn't look at her, or engage with her...so here she is trying to get him to look at her in her face. Saying "he wants to say mama so bad" no he wants down & to play with toys. He's still not looking at her, this is actually very telling & only proving our point even more.
Every time she films herself talking to him, I feel very uncomfortable & cringe in the worst way. Like when someone you know isn't a good person, but they try to put on this front as though you aren't aware of their shadiness. It's giving those vibes, like a pit in my stomach because I can tell behind the scenes she's impatient & not nice at all to her son. I'll explain it like this...when a babysitter is sweet to your face, but you find out they mistreat your kid's. Or if a elderly parent is in a nursing home & you assume the staff take good care of them, but you find out they are incredibly cruel. Nothing about Alex makes me feel safe knowing Anderson is in her care. Maybe it's just me, but I pick up on things & I see animosity & frustration in her towards Anderson, not gentleness or love for her baby at all.
Go get therapy Alex, don't repeat this messed up cycle. You aren't happy, your weight & shopping has been out of control ever since Anderson was born. It was always bad, but it got worse because you're desperately trying to fill the emptiness with temporary dopamine hits. The other subreddit make it out like we're the crazy unhinged one's trying to ruin Alex's life, but in all actuality we are just brutally honest about her physical & mental decline.
No we don't like her lies, she absolutely should be held accountable & grow up, accept the repercussions for her actions. But us trying to tell her to seek help for the sake of her child, to DO BETTER so that Anderson doesn't grow up with the same issues she did, isn't "hate" it's logical sound advice she needs to take heed to. To eat better so she's not 500lbs & her son will have a mom that's ALIVE, not bedridden able to take him to school isn't "delusional".
Alex is unable to love anyone but herself, she's only gonna cause emotional trauma to Anderson if she doesn't get the help she needs asap. Because as of right now, her eyes are dead. No light or joy behind them & it's not postpartum depression either. It's years of suppressed buried issues that she used food to cope with. She assumed having a baby would "fix" her, but all it did was make it 100 times worse.