Consular i-130 is rough!
Anyone else feel like they need a break from reddit but cant stop looking? My husband has begged me not to keep doing it too myself. Tbf I'm leaving reddit angry or sobbing constantly and when he calls me he always knows when I've been on here. I'm always hoping to see something, anything, some trick, some clue, some hack, some hope.....I'm desperate. I'm in the uk 3474 miles away. I spent 14 years in the most horrifically abusive relationship. I finally got us out then I met the most incredible Human being on the planet USC and married him. We fought through the UK courts to be able to remove my children from this place full of dark memories, and the person who caused us nothing but pain. I won. We won. Me and my beautiful little girls are free........ only we are not, we are stuck. We are so ready to move, to be a family with the man who bought our smile back, the one person in our lives that makes us feel safe. He is our home. We are free and stuck. Consular i-130 filed in January 2024 with the timelines as they are for our subset plus the 4 months for NVC and for consular interview ect. We are looking at June 2025 at the earliest, also dependant on if the election somehow messes with things more could be longer. Then I come here hoping for some type of miracle some hope. ( I knowing dumb, switch off, find a hobby, live your life ect, ect, ect.) But that's so hard to do when a place is filled with nothing but awkwardness and painfully memories for us. So I go to reddit seeking solace, and I see nothing but people filing after us, and already living with their partners (AOS) being Approved and I just cry. We cant even keep tabs on blocks as our lawyer filled on line and our numbers are strange ioe91 ioe90 so none of the sites have cases beggining with 9 as part of their info so nothing to keep track of. One day we will be truly free, truly happy and life can be truly lived....... probably some time in June 2025. Soooo many ups and downs. Sorry for the pity party I just needed to get it out.