Trans hate amongst other LGBT+ people.

I guess best to describe me as an ally. I have trans friends, they deserve every right everybody else does.
I'm not painting a whole group here but it really took me by surprise. Somebody who was being insanely hateful, purposely misgendering and dead naming somebody I know in a local group.
I find out She's a lesbian. Her wife is the same way, hatred.
I asked her like, why, your supposed to be an ally. Usual stuff I hear from transphobes, not a real woman, other hateful stuff.
She says oh most lesbians hate men who pretend to be women. I know that's not true, unequivocally.
Transwomen are women.