Really worried that I’ll never have sex

I’m a M25, and I’m still a virgin. There’s multiple reasons for it. Shy and overweight all my life, depression the past couple of years, lack of actually trying to date. The few times I’ve showed interest in a girl I’ve been let down easy. All of this is to say that the reasons I’ve never had sex are all on me. It’s my fault for not taking care of myself and not pushing myself to get out there and date. I regret it every single day.

Now I’m at the point where I feel like the ship has sailed for me. My past now defines me. Because of my past mistakes, my future dating life is affected. Any woman I date now will be dating an inexperienced virgin that has never even kissed anyone. I can’t imagine a woman my age wanting to deal with that. There’s hundreds of thousands of experienced men who they can date, why would they date me? Everyone else has been having sex since high school or college while I have no idea what I’m doing. Women aren’t going to want to have to hold my hand through sex and teach me. Because I never did it in my teens, I’m worried I’ll never have the opportunity.

Sorry this post is all over the place. Just needed to get this off my chest.