Ran my boyfriend and best friend’s romantic bond as a joke and they came up as soul mates and I’m spiraling

To make things a little worse, they met on a dating app but she wasn’t interested and immediately recognized him as my type, and the first thing she said to him was simply that she knows someone he would adore. We had dated since and my bestfriend and my boyfriend have gotten along quite well when we have all hung out. I never noticed anything flirtatious between them but they do ask about eachother alot.. of course this likely is because they’re two important people in my life. My boyfriend and I use the Pattern for alot and swear by its accuracies and I can’t help but see and feel how seamless their communication is when we’ve hung out and am getting a little paranoid and insecure after reading how significant they could be in eachother’s lives according to their patterns. My boyfriend and I have the connection below Soulmate (extraordinary.) I am being paranoid but I think I’ll always have this lingering anxiety knowing that they have this rare romantic connection and part of being is dying to tell atleast one of them to see how they’d react. Not sure what I’m asking for here, has anyone had experience with soul mate bonds?

Is our connection really just leading to their ultimate eventual romance? I fear I’ve gone a little paranoid especially since and I are taking a break.