RWhat problem do guys have with skincare?

So i(17M) went for a movie night with my cousins and after that i went to their house to sleep and he just recently got married so I was just preparing to sleep and washed my face and asked his wife for moisturizer as i always use it before sleeping, i never asked him before cuz he didn't have anything but since he got married obv his wife also does skincare. So I was just applying the moisturizer and noticed that he was looking kinda weird at me so i said " u should use it too" and he just started laughing when I asked " what's funny" he said " don't yk that's only for girls" i was so dumbfounded like bro has the crustiest and dryest skin ever and thinks that taking care of ur skin is gay??? , like bro Take a look at yourself after that I was fed up and said " jaisi jiski soch" and proceeded to go to the guest room to sleep. But that really made me wonder I've seen so many people online calling a guy gay just for taking care of his skin, i mean what's wrong with taking Care of yourself and that just pisses me off, cuz all i was literally using was a moisturizer i wouldn't even consider it as a skin care it's that basic, god forbid I had used clenser or toner or something else or he would be crashing out but on the other hand his wife was very nice asking if I want a clenser or anything else but i declined cuz it was already 3 and I was tired and this is a problem with so many guys nowadays they just think that taking care of yourself is gay which is absurd to even think about. I'm thankful of my sister for teaching me how to take care of myself and because of that i never had a single pimple,acne,bumps or anything for that matter

Tl;dr : got called gay for doing basic skincare