Harder to make friends when passing.

So, I’m currently 9 months on T (as of tomorrow) but I’ve been noticing that it’s extremely hard for me to make friends with women now that I pass more than I used to. I’m not a tall or big dude, but that’s beside the point. I do sports (Judo) outside of school now, since my grandma urged me to touch base with my Japanese roots, but I found it hard to get partners in that class, since there’s a lot of women and the guys are scary to approach for me. I’m a very gentle person when it comes to the sport since it involves grappling and throwing, and I have a huge problem when it comes to harming others, so I get the younger women or children to pair with me. But even then, outside of sports, I find it extremely hard to connect with women now.