HOW are yalls sims dying all the time?!

I constantly see talk on here of everyone's sims dying in random and funny ways like from embarrassment, or a fire. I'd love to see a bit of unforeseen chaos but I cannot for the life of me get that to happen in my own games.

Maybe I'm more of a control freak than I thought, but I just have my main sim who I control most of the time and leave the rest of the household to fend for themselves. However, they always end up taking care of their needs with little to no issue.

At this point the only way I can get a sim to die is if I go out of my way to actually kill them, which takes away the "fun" of it all, you know? 😭

FWIW I'm on console, maybe this is some mc command setting thing that I'm missing out on lol