Why can’t we let men moan/whimper??

Okay, sigh, hoping this doesn’t get taken down again😭

Hopefully, this isn’t just my femdom brain talking (ignore my flair for the sake of this post😋)but God damnit can men do anything but act like raging primates when they’re going in???

Every single book I’ve come across, of both submissive male variety and otherwise includes the token growl, grunt, snarl, or groan. Even if you’re drilling my hole or I’m drilling yours, I want to know you like it!! Sing for me😈

It’s also super ironic because it’s really common for women to say they like when men are more vocal, the market for male NSFW ASMR audios is booming. Despite how female targeted most books are, they just don’t seem like they are written with the intention of women enjoying it. Of course, I’m not speaking for all women.

I already know how uncommon anything other than the binary is when it comes to smut is(i.e. Simpering, whimpering FMC of various sizes, and dominant growling MMC getting down to business(yawn)). But it’s 2024, if the FMC gets to scream and beg and moan and whimper for more, then the MMC should follow suit. I don’t know if this is just me, but if I’m sucking out your soul and you’re not making noise aside from a foreign grunt or growl, I’m collecting myself and leaving.

And can I just say, this is also common in femdom!! I’ve read so many since I joined this server but I cannot say that any of them featured a man whimpering/moaning, none of that. Maybe I’ll get a moan or two but that is where authors draw the line! Hell, that’s probably where they throw in the ‘heh, my turn😈’ scene that makes me question my life choices and the recommendations given to me.

Just please let men moan, let them whimper, let them show any modicum of enjoyment in the pleasure that they are getting from the FMC or the FMC is giving to them. Why when a man is desperate in a book must he become primal and animalistic? Why can’t he beg with an almost whiny rasp in his voice for the FMC to put her hands on him? Is that perceived as unattractive?? Cause if a man appeared sweaty and aching before me, begging to do something about his hard dong he’s gonna get swallowed up!!

Why when the FMC is desperate and aching must she moan and beg and whimper for more at the slightest touch, but when a man is desperate he’s lunging for the FMC with an animalistic growl and ‘your little pussy belongs to me😈’-ing the whole scene??

Can we switch it up! We need the FMC primally taking what she needs from the MMC, or the MMC whining at the slightest touch and begging for more!! If I can’t have both I’ll be fine with either! I’m on my hands and knees people🧎🏾‍♀️

This may be a cry for recs of a man that is obsessed with the pleasure of the FMC, some recs of a man (says with a loudspeaker), who moans as he eats the kitty!! And gets overstimulated and can’t help but whimper and whine Yall recs would be greatly appreciated.

I don’t think any instance of this should be marketed as femdom either, is there something about whimpering, moaning, or whining that is not masculine, that is reserved only for women. If she can barge in his room sweaty and aching and whimpering for him, then he can do the same to her!!! Without losing that alpha male tag or gaining a femdom tag.

I think I’m really just praying for more diverse recs, for more desperate aching whiny men. We’ve done big dominant alpha daddy to death let us move on people🗣️

Alright I’m done. Idk why I used to purple devil emoji so much lol, it’s just feels like the personification of every alpha hole MMC.