23 AND CANT MAKE IT PAST KISSING IN DIRE NEED

TLDR: I have came in my pants 3 times while making out with girls and I need to last until I can get the condom on.

So I’m 22, and the last time I was truly sexually active was 17. Since then, I have gotten close to sex with one girl when I was 20 but busted inside the condom before inserting,. Painful stuff. 2 years later while 22 I PE’d in my pants while making out with 3 separate girls. 2/3 didn’t realize, with one of those 2 being at this exact moment, but the one that did notice was the reason we ended things

I have bad masturbation habits. Until about 21 I used lube and masturbated every day mostly, and since then I have been going dry while being ready to bust within a minute. I think part of it comes from myself being expected to cum whenever I have a boner. There have been times where I’ve jerked off just to cure a boner

Idk if it’s nerves from not dating so much or if it’s from my bad habits, I think it’s both honestly. I’ve done very minimal amounts of edging but idk if I trust it.

PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR TIPS OR FEEDBACK I NEED EVERYTHING