Hate that "masculine" is seen as more androgynous than "feminine"

A few years ago is when I realized I was nonbinary and started presenting more androgynously. I love dressing both masc and fem and switch it up pretty frequently. I keep my hair mid-length which makes it pretty easy to style with both kinds of looks. My main gripe is with my own body and how others see it. I've had people in my life tell me I'm not really nonbinary if I enjoy having breasts. I know this is not the case for all of us, but I LIKE my breasts. I like the shape of my body overall, having "female" hips and being generally curvier. It feels like as an AFAB nonbinary person there's this expectation to be more masculine, like having a masculine body shape is the "default" for androgyny and feminine bodies are strictly for people who identify as women or for AMAB nonbinary people. I know that isn't TRUE but it feels invalidating, like I'm not really nonbinary if I'm not aspiring to have a flat chest and short hair. Does anyone else feel this way?

TLDR; it feels like being more masculine is the default for AFAB nonbinary people and I'm very cool with being feminine.