I’m having trouble with NDE’s again and I need help

I was listening and reading testimonies of many positive ndes. I was starting to gain some ease about my fear of the afterlife.

But then I found this testimony of Bryan Melvin: https://youtu.be/0zBDMq2qNsg?si=ehFhYnZJL0Ys_56J

I feel so disheartened by this. I'm not trying to scare anyone or challenge anyone’s nde, but I don't know what to think anymore. I need someone's help and I don't know who to turn to.