Are you celebrated

The best way I can describe my life is single but married. It was my birthday recently and Im trying to determine if Im asking too much. We went away for 2 nights… he is not a man with a sense of humor, so when he handed me my birthday card, (literally straight from the plastic bag, not even in the envelope and nothing written on it) laughing, I realized he wanted me to make light of the situation (he didnt have time to write anything or put it in the envelope). But we were away, childless, at a nice hotel so, I should be grateful. We went out to eat at a nice restaurant… his meal was messed up so he made us leave. The waitress offered to box up the cake they had for me - he was so mad about his dinner he said ‘no, we dont want to take anything were leaving’. He brought a bag of m&ms but ate them out of anger, so i didnt even get that either. He knows I have a major sweet tooth that I work to reign in all the time. So, although I got laid (yay, just what I wanted 🙄) with no kids to interrupt for 2 nights, I didnt get a cake or even a card. Am I thinking too much? Last year I got hand written coupons for my birthday. Yes its a pattern. But this year I stood up for myself and hes mad at me for not being grateful. No I cant leave. Im just venting I guess, or looking for a new perspective to stay positive. I dont know.