Husband’s ex girlfriend was his best sex🥲

I accidentally found out that my husband confided to his friend that his ex girlfriend is still the best sex he has ever had although at that time he said this, we were already married for 6 months. Never mind how I found out about it, the point is really how this knowledge is quite devastating.

I knew for a fact that this ex was pretty wild in bed and my husband was obsessed with her back then. Im just sad that even though were already married, their sexual memories still affect him. Perhaps this is the reason why he’s not very excited to initiate sex with me. It’s always been an issue. He doesn’t have the same drive as me and two weeks can go by and he wouldn’t initiate sex at all.

Make no mistake about it, I know my husband loves me very much. He is affectionate in so many ways and is truly very sweet. He is faithful and always tries everyday to be the best husband and father. The only lingering problem we have really is that he is not passionate about initiating sex with me and now I know why.

Ive been reading a lot of related posts about this and im really curious what it means to be good in bed. I honestly thought I was pretty good and enthusiastic but then apparently his ex is still waaaay better.

What makes a woman unforgettable in bed anyway?

How do I help my husband forget about his past sexual exploits? Should I even try?

How do I improve our intimacy given the situation?