Would you be okay dating someone who doesn’t have many friends?
I’m 22, I only have one friend from uni, bc I go to a very small town university where there isn’t much people on my course. I don’t have a job where I can meet people. Most of my time is spent on my studies at university. I’m also neurodivergent so that may make it difficult to make more friends because I’m naturally quiet, and prefer to have fewer close friends (like 1 or 2) instead of large network of friends that I’m not close to. I didn’t keep in touch with my friends from school because highschool friends can be mean and we left on bad terms lol
I always feel awkward when someone asks me ‘what do you do for fun?’ On dates, because then I’ll have to reveal that I don’t go out much and most of my ‘fun’ activities are spent at home. I feel embarrassed to be kind of a homebody, and I’m worried people will think I’m a loser lol. I would like to go out more but I just don’t have much friends to do it with. I’d like to find more friends but there aren’t opportunities to do so at the moment.
I feel really scared that my date will notice that I don’t have friends and think badly of it. I’m not a bad person, it’s just my circumstances at the moment.