My wife refuses to allow me into our apartment

I have a stepson who I raised from the age of 9 he’s now 20. He was gone for close to se 7 months and finally started working with my wife’s cousin. So at that time, it was just my Wife, our 6-year-old son & 9-year-old daughter and myself This is a 2 bedroom apartment and things were fine. We’ve had a lot of marital issues, mostly just communication and she has expressed the desire to seek therapy. Shortly after my stepson returned from his work hiatus, he came to the door and I was told that he would be there for two days. Two days later, he was cussing me out and acting aggressive towards me in the parking lot and I decided it would be best for me to take a Vacation/work trip to South Florida. The intention was never to move out of the apartment. Most of my stuff was left there. Wifey is saying now that none of my belongings are there. I left the Apt. with the police watching me. They told me to take a handful of things.

Fast-forward to two weeks ago I decided it was time for me to be back in my apartment because my children need me and she’s saying that she wants to work on our marriage. But I am not allowed to even make one step into the apartment. I’ve spoken to my local police department. They’re apprehensive about intervening simply because unbeknownst to me when we moved into this apartment 2 years ago it looks like I was left off of the lease. I’ve read into the Florida law pretty well, and apparently it doesn’t matter who pays the payment or the rent, nor does it matter whose name the lease is under. Both equal. Access rights to the property or anything else that acquired during the marriage for that matter. My question is who do I get in touch with to help me move myself and my things back into the apartment?