Am I acting entitled for expecting birthday plans from my friends?

So I've been out of my home country for more than a year now. I've made few friends here not too many just 2-3 close friends but I know they're not 'friend' friends. I have a roommate and we're very close. I believe we have a good relationship. We share a same friend group. We came to this country on September 2023 and her birthday was in October. Me and another friend (we don't talk anymore because of other reasons) made a plan and surprised her with a birthday cake and everything a day before. Both me and my friend have a same birthday month just 2 week difference. We celebrated his birthday as well by cooking him a homemade meal and everything. On my birthday he came to our place with a cake a day before and then we went to a club. Me, my roommate and another girl (we aren't even friends) and the next day I literally spent my birthday at home doing literally nothing. My roommate didn't even ask me what should we do or even plan anything. And then at the end of the day I cooked something sweet for myself and after 4 days of silent treatment FROM HER, I finally told her how I felt bad and her response was I didn't know you wanted to do anything. In 2024, we planned a trip to another city with 8 other friends for my roommate's birthday. Planned everything for a week and then went to that city for 2 days. ( I was the one who initiated the whole planning with another friend(F) of ours.) This friend went back to our hometown. Coming week is my birthday. And I see no planning whatsoever from my roommate's end. I tried telling her let's go somewhere and we even booked a holiday from our jobs but nothing else. Honestly I don't want to ask more than twice about my own birthday plans. Atleast send me location options, itinerary (which I did almost every day for the whole week before her birthday) but no. I'm someone who enjoys museums and calm places whice she and other friends find boring. So I don't know if this is making me sound entitled or they're really not putting enough efforts. At the same time I feel like me putting a lot of efforts for them is just making me expect the same from their end. And I don't want that. Sorry for rambling. I've decided if I don't see any communication in coming days I'm travelling solo. Sorry for rambling English is not my first language (you could've figured it out by now)

UPDATE

Thank you all for being brutally honest. I needed that slap. So this is what I'm going to send them: Guys I'm planning on celebrating my birthday (date) by having a day trip or a small stay to (location). I'd love to have you there. Let me know if you think you have any other good location in mind which is closer to (current place). And send me your RSVP as well.