Most Bangladeshi Girls are Dependent

Disclaimer: I said most, not all. Also, I'm not a great writer, so if you have any objections, please feel free to comment.

Personally, I don't have any experience talking to girls in my 19 years of life. However, after observing relatives and people in my coaching classes, I've noticed that some girls seem uninterested in pursuing opportunities and financial independence. I’m not saying they aren’t good at academics or in their careers, but there appears to be a gap when it comes to taking advantage of their potential.

In my family, for example, I see my aunt, who graduated from a public university, but now stays at home, taking care of a 1.5-year-old child. I’ve also seen countless women who excelled academically but stopped working after marriage. Some might say this is because their husbands don’t allow them to work, which sometimes results in complicated and unhappy relationships. Communication is essential in relationships, and when it’s lacking, it can lead to serious issues.

Another issue I've observed is that some women simply choose not to work. They are content with the roles of homemaker, cooking, and caring for the household, which is perfectly fine if that's truly what they want. But the situation becomes concerning when something unexpected happens—like if a husband becomes abusive or suffers an accident. This can leave them financially vulnerable, unable to leave a bad relationship or forced to endure hardship due to a lack of financial independence.

My message to women is this: strive to be financially independent. This is valuable for everyone, men and women alike. Financial freedom makes life much easier and opens up options for a more secure future.