Had completely forgotten this redeeming Tom Scavo scene

When I first watched DH, I loved Tom and with every subsequent rewatch I’ve loathed him more and more. I somehow forgot this moment of his Roy tried to shame Lynette for not letting her husband be a “man”. Have I missed more of these sweet moments or forgotten about as it oils be nice to not feel so depressed by his character and the depiction of marriage he and Lynette display.

(Context - he describes Lynette’s upbringing and her fear that things will collapse around her, hence her controlling nature)