Why is it so difficult?

I have joined Cougar and I have texted 6 guys that are in Minnesota. Not one of them have any interest in me. I don’t understand. I have been texting a really cute Cub that I want to meet and have sex with, but he is so busy all the time. I would adjust my schedule so it would be better for him, but still it is like I am wanting him and he is so hesitant. Maybe guys from Minnesota only want a women who has a lot of money to pay for everything and buy their Cubs great gifts? If that is the case, then I understand it. I don’t have much money and I live paycheck to paycheck. What do you all think?