They're around...

This was how it all started. I matched with this guy back in early November. We chatted for a while, we both weren't sure what we were looking for as I was still recovering from an awful, awful, nightmare relation and he just recently got out of a relationship. We agreed to meet up as platonic friends. He was very kind and respectful from the get go, smart, charming, gorgeous. And most importantly, not a junkie and drunk, or broke ass pathetic middle age man.

I was a bit flirty but he was cool as cucumber. We had few more dates spanned around 6 weeks. All platonic. All ended with hugs. Not even kiss on the cheek. I was sure I got massively friendzoned. Until he finally asked if he could get a kiss. There was no massive explosion of passions. But there were millions of Gentle butterflies in my belly. And things just got better and better from that point on.

I have a son who's autistic. A while ago I posted on sub reddit dating asking about men's opinions on dating mum with autistic kid and the responses I got was basically yeah nahs. But with this guy, I couldn't have asked for anyone more understanding, loving, patient, and caring.

So, moral of the story is there are good people out there on the dating apps. You just need to burn the haystack to find the needle.

This was how it all started. I matched with this guy back in early November. We chatted for a while, we both weren't sure what we were looking for as I was still recovering from an awful, awful, nightmare relation and he just recently got out of a relationship. We agreed to meet up as platonic friends. He was very kind and respectful from the get go, smart, charming, gorgeous. And most importantly, not a junkie and drunk, or broke ass pathetic middle age man.

I was a bit flirty but he was cool as cucumber. We had few more dates spanned around 6 weeks. All platonic. All ended with hugs. Not even kiss on the cheek. I was sure I got massively friendzoned. Until he finally asked if he could get a kiss. There was no massive explosion of passions. But there were millions of Gentle butterflies in my belly. And things just got better and better from that point on.

I have a son who's autistic. A while ago I posted on sub reddit dating asking about men's opinions on dating mum with autistic kid and the responses I got was basically yeah nahs. But with this guy, I couldn't have asked for anyone more understanding, loving, patient, and caring.

So, moral of the story is there are good people out there on the dating apps. You just need to burn the haystack to find the needle.