What’s the main difference living in ATX vs San Antonio?

29 M black who’s from Ohio originally but lived in SA for almost 3 years now but I have no friends and the dating scene here is straight awful and I want out.

What’s the major differences or factors moving to Austin compared to SA?

I feel like SA is a family vacation military town and it’s hard to make friends or connections here unless you belong in a certain group or Hispanic which I’m not and I find people here fickle and just Inconsistent and it makes it a lot worse when I been habitually single for two years with alot of women in SA playing games, ghosting, using me for money and food, and ones who are not my type and constantly like my profiles then I just delete them because I know what I want and I’m not a ugly or obese guy with a lot going on to settle.

Is Austin going to be a better environment to make solid friendships so I can have a social life and not be envious of others going out and having fun while I’m in my house just watching anime and being bitter why I moved to Texas leaving my real friends and family behind in Ohio for a new life.

What’s the dating scene like in ATX? Social scene? I like to be around 24-35 year olds who don’t have kids or not married yet, all my Ohio friends are married and have children and properties so I just feel out of place turning 30 this July.

I enjoy otaku anime culture, gaming, love to travel, big into the restaurant scene, staying cool from the heat, and I’m big on trying to put myself out there but I don’t obsess over the drinking bar scene and I despise clubs because I don’t like ratchet ghetto culture and not into drugs or weeed which I find a lot of the people in San Antonio prioritize tbh.

I’m just frustrated and just want a sense of belonging and enjoy my life and SA ain’t it but my job is based here and just signed a lease til April 2025 but I can always break it and move sooner.