Not spending time with my HF

I should have noticed the red flags in the beginning. When we first started talking it went great than the second time we talked they wanted to match already and I thought it was great. When I got here it was also like a fairytale, I didn’t have to clean the kids rooms and it was mainly dishes lunch and laundry. Then about 3 months in they wanted me to work longer and longer to the point I was almost working 10h a day. When school kicked in they asked me to start cleaning more areas in the house. I did it. But then I started seeing that I was busy clean up after them and doing their laundry too. I talked to them about me doing all of these things but nothing has changed. I spoke to the LCC and she said that we are supposed to be a team and work together there shouldn’t be a chore solely for me to do. Yet most of them are. I just stopped doing their laundry and I can see that they are unhappy but it’s not my job. I am also not included when it comes to eating. They never ask if I want to join or if I want anything when they are getting takeout. I have just been sat there while they eat. So I have been leaving when I am not working. I have weekends of and so I leave to go stay at a friends house every weekend. It may sound rude but this doesn’t feel like home so I am treating it like what it is a : Job. I feel bad but if they only see me as a maid or a nanny than so be it. Am I wrong? I mean I used to spend every weekend here and even work on some weekends.