What did I do wrong?
I reached out to an escort the other day but it didn't go well and I don't really know what I did/could've done differently.
Her ad said to call which I did and when she answered "hello" I verbatim said, "Hey i saw your ad and was wondering if I can come over for 1 hour?" She then says "Do you know where I live?". That threw me off so I kind of stuttered and said "no". She then says "How are you going to come over if you don't know where I live? Have you seen me before?. I'm still thrown off by her response so my speech is still kind of stuttery and I say "no, I just I thought you'd give your address".
She then says "Well I don't give my address out to strangers". I respond with "well yeah" with an positive inflection showing that I understand, but I stutter after I say this because I was thinking of how to explain that I wasn't expecting her to just give me her address right away and that I was just simply inquiring, without sounding accusatory.
Before I could say anything else she says chuckles and says "I have no idea what you're talking about". At this point I just gave up and said "Sorry, i think i got the wrong number." She then says "No, you have the right number, 1hr for _____$, I just don't give my address out to people i don't know."
I'm now pretty much lost for words and respond with an "Ok" again, trying to word what I'm asking for differently, but she immediately chuckles and says "Are you on drugs?". I can't even remember what exactly I was thinking at this moment but I laughingly said "No, I was just wondering if I could see you."
I don't remember what exactly was said over the next 10-15 seconds or so, but the conversation went to her wanting a picture for verification and screening purposes, too which I responded with yes's and ok's to what she wanted, trying to show that I was being receptive and not turned off by her requests. So the call ends and I take a picture and send it(i don't look like i'm on drugs at all), and she just leaves me on read. (mind you, her add said absolutely nothing about a screening process)
I've seen a couple escorts before and led with the same exact opening line and had 0 problems, but those were through text. Should I use a new line or am I not alone in thinking her response was pretty off? and I do not care about salvaging the the date, but am concerned about if she put me on the blacklist or shadow bans me or whatever its called. Because I guess from her perspective, Im assuming it seemed like a crackhead just tried to push her into giving her address, and she has my number and photo, so yeah.
Thanks