How to build community in USA suburbs?

Suburbs in the USA were literally designed as areas for white people to flee to when non-whites started coming to cities.

They're designed to separate us and have us treat our "private property" as our own little kingdom.

Some states (thankfully not mine) even have laws that pretty much allow you to execute someone for stepping on your lawn (don't even get me started on the grass lawn).

So my question to well-read, well-practiced anarchists is this: how the fuck do I create anarchistic tendencies in a suburb where I hardly know any of my neighbors, some of them are potentially fascists (most probably are fascists in all but name like most Americans), and on top of all that I'm transgender and refuse to apologize for it????