AITAH for not liking my $85 engagement ring?

My fiancé (32M) and I (27f) have been together almost 9 years. He proposed to me 4 years ago at a time I felt like we weren’t ready to get married but I knew I wanted to marry him. The first ring he got me was inexpensive but I like it and it was good quality even though it was broken in a freak accident that was kinda his fault but it’s a long story. I have no hard feelings about it because shit happens and he’s been promising for years to get me a new one. Fast forward; a lot has happened since then and I feel like our relationship has grown for the better but things have been really hard the past two years. We lost our apt after I got hospitalized, he lied about paying rent twice and eventually got evicted , we’ve been bouncing around staying with family, he lost his job twice, a fire and so much other stuff but I’ve been holding things down for us mentally and financially. I just feel like I’ve always given him more than he’s ever gave me. I’ve given grace because every time it’s time for him to show up for me it’s issues that’s out of his control (most of the time) so I’m under standing. I’m always greatful and appreciative but I’m just realizing I never get any effort for Christmas, birthdays, valentines etc but I always go out of my way for him with everything and I’m just starting to feel like I’ll never get that from him no matter how much money he makes or what he’s able to do. I just don’t feel valued but I don’t feel like he doesn’t love me because he shows it in other ways but sometimes I want more and to feel special. The new ring he gave me today was suppose to be my Christmas gift but it got lost in the mail so he had to get refunded and order again. I looked it up and it’s 85 ring from Amazon. It feels like costume jewelry and it’s a huge dull moissanite stone in it. I’m not a materialistic person and maybe that’s why he chose a cheap ring, but at this point in our relationship I just feel like I deserve better. We both are making more money than we ever have and are doing well and have been planning on finally getting married. Plus this was my supposed Christmas gift. I got him multiple outfits, a pair of shoes, jewelry, electric razor and other little things like candles etc. We don’t have kids and I never go cheap on him. I just spent over $400 the past weekend doing everything he wanted for his birthday. AITA and ungrateful if I tell him I don’t like the ring plus he said he got it with Afterpay so that just feels even more cheap to me especially when he has money. I hate feeling like I’m being materialistic but I want a better ring.